Author: Vic Socotra

Putting the Fun Back in Dysfunctional- 2021!

I just typed it for the second time. The new number still sends an electric thrill up my gnarled knuckles. Finally, 2020 is behind us and all will be well! I think that was the second use of an exclamation point for this bold new year. It was exciting! (Third time! Is there a limit […]

A Brand New Year

Sorry- I had intended to leave the New Year to yesterday and on the Eve of 2021, relax with the fire in the background. I fully intended to have some happy thoughts about the end of this year and the start of another. Hopefully a better one. That is a pretty low bar. Instead, there […]

Annus Horribilis

The Royal Family- the descendants of the Kings who threw us out of our old homes- had a saying about bad years. They said it in Latin, to make it more prestigious sounding. “Annus Horribilis” has a grander aura than the mild profanity that has accompanied each month of 2020. It would be more appropriate […]

TOTUS?

So, like everyone these days, I was chatting with one of my circles of pals. You have them, I am sure. They come in batches of orientation. You know the ones played out nationally in some much higher visibility. I could go into them with the acronyms we use these days for convenience. I don’t […]

Arrias: Lessons From the Past

Editor’s Note: OK- it is not Boxing Day, missed that one in blissful sloth in the Great room, fire blazing in the hearth, warm and jolly thoughts dissipating gently. Now, regrettably, it is time to start thinking again. Much as we hate it. Arrias contributes a useful and apolitical guide to why planning is good. […]

Life & Island Times: Have a Very Merry Limoncello Christmas

Editor’s Note: Before it gets away from us…one of the last mornings a Limoncello is appropriate with lunch…or breakfast! – Vic 28 December 2020 Have a Very Merry Limoncello Christmas Coastal Empire Following Thanksgiving, W and I began casting about for various holiday menu sides, entrees, drinks and TV specials to enjoy, when we seized […]

Dawn Launch

In the days of old recruiting ads, there used to be one that featured the deck of an aircraft carrier, driving into the wind amid white foam. The ballet associated with bringing the ship into the wind and readying the powerful aircraft for flight was accompanied by the bold assertive remark: “Dawn Launch! Sea of […]

Gonzo

So, the holiday is over, gone with a faint blue flash that reminded me of something I couldn’t quite remember. To keep my mind off the other memories, I was working on a small project with a dual purpose. I have (somewhere) a pile of things that go back to days spent on what is […]

A Dusting of Peace (and Snow)

A Merry Christmas! This is a view from downslope of the barn at Refuge Farm. The snow- no kidding- is falling lightly on this Christmas morning. It is enough to gently accumulate just a bit and bring back memories of the kids and their wild excitement, and the parallel wild excitement we shared all those […]

Friends and Family (At Christmas)

Screen Shot 2020-12-24 at 11.06.57 AM.png It is raining here, just south of the Rappahannock River. Cold rain, but filled with a certain mirth at the warmth of the fire inside, good company, and the promise of a new year less filled with strife and uncertainty. I ran across an old clip of what a […]